Ohio Family Time

Dad and Jane at Bob Evan'sAfter the wonderful family time in Maryland, I drove to Ohio with Dad and Jane to spend more time with them and visit Ohio family. The days seemed to fill themselves very quickly. I got to see the great-aunts and cousins on dad’s side. Max and Janet hosted a Kreischer gathering and I got to see all my uncles, their wives, and many, many of my cousins and their kids.

Dad and Jane at outdoor concertVan Wert has a free summer concert in the park on Friday evenings. The week I visited was the first concert of the season and it was perfect weather to enjoy the outside venue.

I got to visit with both my Grandpa Harter’s remaining sisters: Great-Aunt Evelyn, 96, and Great-Aunt Ode, 102. They both still live alone in their homes but are visited each day by their kids. Dad tries to get by to see them a few times a month and I always visit when I go back. Dad usually meets his cousin Max and a group of other (semi) retired farmers for breakfast at 6 am on Saturday morning. I opted to skip the morning ritual and instead we visited Max and Ginny at their home one evening.We also had lunch with family friends Glenn and Kay LeMar in Lima one noon.

Golden Finches feeding on thistle seedDad puts out a bird bath and bird feeders in their yard. We could sit at the dining table and watch them drinking and bathing. The robins really seem to enjoy splashing around in it. Dad has to fill it about twice a day. The birds enjoy the feeders he puts up for them too and I tried to do a little photography of them. I especially liked the colorful Golden Finch.

Dad is active in Venedocia Lion’s Club which is very service oriented. One of their service projects is building handicap ramps for those in need. Dad got called to help with one while I was visiting. I went along to help and documented the process. It was interesting to watch the experienced hands build it up so quickly. I served as “gopher” (and photo-journalist).

Uncles and AuntsMy Mom is one of thirteen kids. Mom is the youngest of three girls in the family and once her sisters were married and her mom working swing shift at a factory, she felt she got stuck with lots of housework because the many brothers claimed that was woman’s work and wouldn’t help. I think the brothers have all been better educated by their wives since! I was very happy to get to see all my remaining Kreischer uncles and their wives, plus  some of my other aunts, during my visit. I also appreciate my many cousins who worked in a visit with me between their vacation plans and their many children’s summer activities. It was definitely a packed week and I enjoyed seeing everyone.

Family Time

Harter groupOur family gathering for Madison and Dennis’ wedding in Maryland was the first time in seven years that the whole family had been together. I was trying to remember the last time my siblings and parents were together and Pamela reminded me that it was when we were all in Ridgecrest and helping the Levy’s pack for their move to Maryland. I can’t believe it was seven years ago that they moved! Time really does fly.

We converged on the Levy household mid-week before the wedding to help with the last minute wedding setup and enjoy some family time together. I was able to sync my flights and flew on the same plane as Mom and Pamela from LA to DC. Not only got a head start on our catching up but made for convenient airport pickup!

Lunch time with the familyMelanie had the rehearsal dinner at their home and we worked together to prepare the meal. When it was time for lunch, the Harter clan sat down all together.; it was just like old times. The weather was lovely summer conditions the entire time and made outdoor gathering very pleasant on the Levy back patio. We also had time for a family morning walk along the Indian Head Trail, an old rail line converted into a biking and walking path.

Reception setupSetting up for the reception was also a family group activity. Melanie did an amazing job pre-planning everything and then coordinating the whole event. She was pulled in several directions those last few days. Will took off work a few days and handled a big load including the outdoor wedding set up with the help of Will IV and friends. Madison and Aunt Nicki finished off the boxes that held the guest favor gifts. We all enjoyed being active and participating in Madison and Dennis’ big day. And I especially enjoyed all the time I got to spend with my parents and siblings plus extended family.

Madison and Dennis’ Wedding

The joyous couple: Madison and Dennis SheltonMadison Levy (my niece) married Dennis Shelton on May 19, 2012 in a beautiful outdoor ceremony set in a lovely garden in La Plata, Maryland. Madison is the daughter of Will Levy III and Melanie (Harter) Levy, and sister to Will Levy IV, of Waldorf, Maryland. Dennis is the son of Teresa Shelton, who flew up from Florida to join them on this special day.

The Levy/Harter side was well represented with relatives coming from Ohio, California and Hawaii. Grandparents, Bob and Jane Harter, and Audrey Campbell, uncle Warren Harter, and aunts Nanette Harter, Pamela Beamer, and Niceole Levy arrived a few days early to celebrate and help with the festivities.

Below are some of the wedding snapshots while we await the professional photographs. I apologize for not knowing the names of Madison and Dennis’ dear friends who helped make this day special. (Reception photos to follow.)

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January and February 2012

The beginning of the year brought new friends, friends moving around, friends recovering from illness, and a new time for bonding. With the changes revolving around us, Neil and I are still centered in our little cottage by the sea. It is small but fulfills our needs as a beautiful living and working space.

My bonding time was with Quentin. I took care of him for almost three weeks in January and another week the end of February. The reason is Quentin’s grandmother, Marjorie, was diagnosed with a brain tumor late in 2011. Her major surgery took place in mid January on Oahu. I am happy to say that the doctor feels he got out the majority of disease and Marjorie is stable and happy at home again. Vajra accompanies her mother to Oahu as caregiver. Vajra also look the Certified Nursing Assistant course on Oahu in January while her mother was recovering from the surgery.

I spent the nights with Quentin in his Kula home and would drop him at school in the morning, come to Kihei for the day, then pick him up at end of day, and we would have evening time together before his bedtime. On weekends, we would would spend a night or two in Kihei with Neil. For the sunsets, we went to Kalama park where Neil and I enjoyed the shore walk and the sunset colors while Quentin got to ride his new bike! Being new to bike riding it was a bit scary at first but soon he was going faster than the wind!

After the surgery Vajra and Quentin moved from Kula back to Paia to share the house with Marjorie. Quentin remains at the same school and is very happy about that. I helped with packing and cleaning the Kula home, then spent another week with Quentin in Paia when Marjorie needed an emergency surgery. All successful.

Our friend Sue is off to Egypt and Ireland for 3 to 4 months of exploring plus energy and spiritual work. We are so excited for her. Those are countries I haven’t yet visited so I’m living vicariously through her emails and blog. She introduced us to a new friend, Brigitte, from the big island. Brigitte was spending a few months visiting Maui. We enjoyed a few afternoon teas, went for a beautiful hike in Iao Valley together, and another day Neil and Brigitte drove around East Maui to hike and explore. Neil continued to work with the new camera and has processed a few more High Dynamic Range composite photos that are at the end of the gallery below.