Gratitude

Receiving all the festive holiday cards and email messages I get this time of year reminds me how grateful I am for all my family and friends. I realize it has been a year since I last wrote a web page. Although our day to day lives seem uneventful, there is much to be grateful for. We love our tiny cottage home on the ocean in Maui. Each morning, we have morning tea on the lanai together enjoying the beauty around us, visits from our little green gecko friends, and chattering birds feeding and bathing. Neil has a youtube channel displaying numerous videos of the geckos eating out of our hands and the birds in their bird bath. It is also that time of year when we are watching for whales as we sip our tea. Geckos Lining Up to Eat From Our Hands

My mom Audrey and her husband Bill have purchased a beautiful oceanfront condo just a mile from us. It’s really a joy to have them so near. Mom and I often meet mid-way on the beach and walk together. They are here part time for now. We will be able to have Christmas together; first time in many years.

We are grateful to have Neil’s mom Jean and her husband Morley still living next door to us. I expect we will gather for the traditional tree trimming soon. We don’t have room for a tree in our small space but I did get some decorations up this year.

My travels this year were two trips to Ohio to visit my dad Bob and his wife Jane. I am grateful to say they are in fair health. Dad had the same back surgery at the end of January that Jane had last spring. He was diligent with his rehab and is doing great. When I went in February, I was lifting the 50 lbs bags of water softener salt into the truck. On my trip in September, he was keeping up with me bag for bag!

Quentin, my great-nephew, just turned 13! He is in 8th grade and continues to be outgoing. He still loves his video games. His sister Sophie was here this summer and will be back for two weeks this Christmas. We look forward to seeing them all on Christmas with their mother Vajra.

Neil’s daughter Mailea has been living on Maui for several months this year. We are grateful for the time we get to spend with her. She has a place of her own and many new friends. I’m sure many of them will be life-long friends. We are glad she is loving Maui. Neil’s daughter Ari is engaged to be married on July 5 to Eric Schultz. They are currently living in Missoula, Montana, where Ari works in Labor and Delivery at a local hospital while Eric is doing his post doctorate. Ari, raised in southern California, is learning what temperatures below 0 feel like. I’m sure her sweet dog Lyra gets Ari outside on a regular basis!

This feels like another year of technology (ok, we are techno geeks.) I moved back to a smartphone after two years with a basic phone. We both got Samsung Galaxy Note II this summer. Then after becoming familiar with that, we decided to try a tablet and got the Samsung Galaxy Note 10.1. I was very grateful to have it in November when my desktop computer (that Neil had built me 5 years ago) died. I was able to easily keep up with email while waiting for a new laptop to be built and arrive. I was also able to start to prepare for Windows 8. Had I done the OS research before ordering the Toshiba, I might have listened to all my friends who rave about their Macs. But I do continue to do some training and felt I would need to learn the new Windows 8 environment eventually.

We continue to pray for peace on this earth and love for all. We are grateful for our simple life full of family, friends, love, and the beauty of each day and each sunset.
Sunset Time Lapse – 80 Minutes in 80 Seconds

Happy Solstice!

We wish you a very happy Solstice, a wonderful holiday season, and a happy new world!

Since last summer, you could say we have been home bodies. We rearranged our lanai furniture this spring to make a more inviting seating area for entertaining and we added an outdoor table. We now eat most our evening meals on the lanai enjoying the sunset and beautiful color in the clouds. We traded out the fish tank for a bird feeder and bird bath. The fish went to a good home and we get occasional reports of their progress. During morning tea and later as we work on our computers, we are entertained by the antics of the birds, have colorful flowers in our view, and watch the beautiful blue ocean for signs of Humpback whales. We saw our first one from shore in the distance last week. Hopefully, soon, there will many spouts close to shore. Neil saw a spout and a baby tail fluke just as I typed this. The binoculars are in handy reach on our desks.

This past month we have been reorganizing and updating inside. [Thank you wonderful parents for Christmas money.] Having finally found a fabric we both liked, we recovered the couch cushions allowing us to get rid of the sheet that covered the previous worn and split fabric. We are really appreciating seeing the couch again. We took advantage of Cyber Monday to get a new color laser printer. Its arrival required some major reorganizing (and cleaning) to position it in place of the two old printers (one color inkjet and one B&W laser). Next came the sewing projects to, shall we say, camouflage it and produce a fitted dust cover. We are rather proud of how the corner area now looks: hiding the storage area underneath the top shelf. We had some extra fabric we hadn’t used on the printer covering and decided it would be great to replace the plain blue shelf covering in the bedroom.

We are very excited to have company coming. Neil’s daughter, Mailea, is arriving right after Christmas for a few weeks visit to Maui. She is currently in the middle of her PhD program and looking forward to some R&R. Ari, Neil’s younger daughter, was thrilled to transfer mid-year to her desired nursing specialty of labor and delivery at the hospital in Santa Maria where she has worked the past year. Mom and Bill were able to come in October for a week while I house sat in Makena and they are going to be able to come for two weeks again in January. They are seriously thinking about buying an oceanfront condo and moving to Maui. I am keeping my fingers crossed! Neil and I previewed many condos for them through September and sent photos and descriptions.

They narrowed it down to four of them which they viewed during their October visit. There are now more on the market and they will have time in January to view others.

Quentin and Vajra had Sophie’s holiday visit over Thanksgiving this year. We got to spend a few days with them during her visit. Quentin continues to do well in school and is a joy to me. Dad and Jane have been through some health issues this year. Jane had back surgery in June and there were complications. She was in the hospital a few more times and in the rehab center till fall. Both she and Dad are thrilled to have her home again and doing well. Dad is now feeling pain in his back and having tests.

Plus he just had cataract surgery on one eye and feels his vision is blurry. He is hoping it is from the drops and will clear up soon. We enjoy having Jean and Morley right next door. They are doing well and we are grateful.

We are grateful for each moment of each day and for having wonderful family and friends. May each moment be blessing to you and we wish you a very joyous season.

Birdfeeder and Lanai Garden

We continue to enjoy our morning tea on the lanai among tweets and flutters and flowers.

Back in the spring, we noticed some House Finches, called Papaya Birds in Hawaii, visiting the cardinals sunflower seed cup feeders I wrote about last March. After my visit to Dad and Jane’s and seeing their birdfeeders, we decided to get one. We decided to place it off the corner of the lanai where we can watch it from our computer desks throughout the day as well as at morning tea time.

This now gave Neil a “project.” He developed a two pulley system that allowed us to lower the feeder for easy filling. He added a 2 pound dive weight on the bottom to stabilize it during high winds (sometimes quite gusty) and a small fishing weight on the end of the string to keep it from flying loose. The finches loved the feeder and a pretty soon their friends and distant relatives started to sit in the trees and on the railing waiting their turn. Neil next added perches for them to sit closer (where we can see and enjoy them better). The first few times the trade winds got brisk we watched the seed being blown straight out of the feeder sideways. So Neil got a 2 foot square of clear Plexiglas from Roger to put up as a wind shield. Works like a charm.

Javanese Finches were the next to discover the feeder. They are an elegant looking bird and remind me of puffins. Another friend of ours calls them ‘tuxedo birds.’ They are also aggressive bullies. In the morning, they sit as “birds on a wire”, sometimes as many as 50, waiting for feeding time. We fill the feeder when we are ready to go out on the lanai for tea and once the seed appears, they start the invasion. Neil calls it Fight Club since they seem to enjoy the squabbling as much as the food. They vie for position and growl at each other and threaten to bite each other to get to the cups. The papaya birds are quiet and stealthy and actually much braver when it comes to coming near us humans. When the Javanese get startled and fly away to the safety of the wire, the papaya birds fly in to snatch a big sunflower seed and fly away to eat it in peace before the Javanese fly back in number. Speaking of projects, Neil had to redesign the cups to get them to dispense the birdseed mix just right; Initially it was getting jammed up by the sunflowers in the mix or it was dispensing seed so fast that the Javanese were knocking most of it out to the ground. Never fear, there are 3 species of doves that have shown up to eat the offerings dropped down to them.

There is also another avid birdwatcher that frequents our lanai or camouflaged ground positions.  Sunshine, a stray Birman cat, adopted Morley and Jean this year, but hangs out at our lanai around bird feeding time. He has caught and eaten a few of the birds but fortunately most seem wise to his ways.

The birdbath was the next addition to the feeding area. We wanted something high enough we could see. It also had to have enough weight to be stable in the wind. A terracotta planter bottom dish fit the bill. Although the birds would drink from it, it was several days before we saw one actually take a bath. Kihei has so little rain; I’m not sure if they knew how to use water for bathing! Ha

The mated pair of cardinals built a nest in the front mango tree and hatched a little one. It fell out of the nest too early and couldn’t fly well enough to get to safety. The local cats were stalking it. Neil climbed up the tall ladder (with me stabilizing it) and put the baby bird back in the nest TWICE. And each time it hopped out and down again. We had to leave it on its own after that because it seems that’s what it wanted. Mom and Dad bird both chirped and stood guard as long as they could till dark. We never saw the baby fly more than a few feet and didn’t see it the next day. We assume it didn’t make it. Soon after the cardinal pair moved to a new tree somewhere off the street behind us and we hope they have better luck with new offspring. The adults still come back for sunflower seeds but no young have shown up. We keep watching.

Hanging flower baskets and planter boxes were another addition to our lanai environment. We had been successful growing tropical plants in our garden and yard, but just haven’t been able to get edible plants to survive. I think it is both the soil and the bugs. Neil, with my assistance, hung the planter baskets, built wood planters, and put in a drip watering system. We now have rosemary, basil and mint growing beautifully in our above-ground planters! We put a succulent which produces fuchsia colored flowers in one pot to add a spot of color. The final treat to enhance the lanai this December is a blossoming orchid plant. Quentin and Sophie gave me a blossoming orchid plant two years ago. After it lost all its flowers, I put it in the garden outside to get watered nightly, paying it no more attention. Two years later, grew a stalk with several buds. I brought it to the lanai where just one of the flowers has opened so far. Again, it is positioned so we can see from inside the house as well as at morning tea.

Photos by Neil.

Sophie’s Summer Visit

Quentin and Sophie at party

Sophie flew from Oregon for a Maui visit with her mom Vajra and brother Quentin for a month this summer. They celebrated her 9th birthday with a party the first week she was here (a month early but then she had all her gifts to play with during her visit!) Neil and I attended the fun festivities which included piñata bashing, buffet browsing, candle blowing, gift opening, and swimming.

I got to spend a few mornings with them. We went swimming and played in the sand at the beach. Sophie is really a water nymph and could practically live in the water. As a special treat for the kids, Vajra took them to stay at the Wailea Marriott again as she did last December so they could play in the water park area reserved for guests.

Sophie returned to Oregon in mid July right before her birthday in time to spend it with her father. Quentin come to stay with Neil and I for two days the following weekend while Vajra and Marjorie went to Oahu for another surgery visit. Quentin brought his computer and as an early birthday present for him, we got him the computer game Minecraft as a download. He was on the computer almost solid for the entire time. As Neil said, he just resurfaced for food and went back to his nest on the couch again. Quentin starts school on Monday already! The summer goes fast for Maui school kids.

Ohio Family Time

Dad and Jane at Bob Evan'sAfter the wonderful family time in Maryland, I drove to Ohio with Dad and Jane to spend more time with them and visit Ohio family. The days seemed to fill themselves very quickly. I got to see the great-aunts and cousins on dad’s side. Max and Janet hosted a Kreischer gathering and I got to see all my uncles, their wives, and many, many of my cousins and their kids.

Dad and Jane at outdoor concertVan Wert has a free summer concert in the park on Friday evenings. The week I visited was the first concert of the season and it was perfect weather to enjoy the outside venue.

I got to visit with both my Grandpa Harter’s remaining sisters: Great-Aunt Evelyn, 96, and Great-Aunt Ode, 102. They both still live alone in their homes but are visited each day by their kids. Dad tries to get by to see them a few times a month and I always visit when I go back. Dad usually meets his cousin Max and a group of other (semi) retired farmers for breakfast at 6 am on Saturday morning. I opted to skip the morning ritual and instead we visited Max and Ginny at their home one evening.We also had lunch with family friends Glenn and Kay LeMar in Lima one noon.

Golden Finches feeding on thistle seedDad puts out a bird bath and bird feeders in their yard. We could sit at the dining table and watch them drinking and bathing. The robins really seem to enjoy splashing around in it. Dad has to fill it about twice a day. The birds enjoy the feeders he puts up for them too and I tried to do a little photography of them. I especially liked the colorful Golden Finch.

Dad is active in Venedocia Lion’s Club which is very service oriented. One of their service projects is building handicap ramps for those in need. Dad got called to help with one while I was visiting. I went along to help and documented the process. It was interesting to watch the experienced hands build it up so quickly. I served as “gopher” (and photo-journalist).

Uncles and AuntsMy Mom is one of thirteen kids. Mom is the youngest of three girls in the family and once her sisters were married and her mom working swing shift at a factory, she felt she got stuck with lots of housework because the many brothers claimed that was woman’s work and wouldn’t help. I think the brothers have all been better educated by their wives since! I was very happy to get to see all my remaining Kreischer uncles and their wives, plus  some of my other aunts, during my visit. I also appreciate my many cousins who worked in a visit with me between their vacation plans and their many children’s summer activities. It was definitely a packed week and I enjoyed seeing everyone.